Dear Black Swan, Stealth, and Blondie,
Thank you for your honesty. It has to be painful as I personally CAN and DO understand. Given my father's penchant for cheerfulness - with a measure of naivete' thrown in - I simply chose to offer a positive approach to the matter. I grew up with "the Beav" [Leave it to Beaver], but my childhood didn't much resemble his. I UNDERSTAND and have empathy despite my positive spin. Laughing on the outside, crying on the inside.
Nobody has rained on anybody's parade. Telling it like it is, IS perfectly all right.
Love,
CoCo